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Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia: 10 Strategies for Growth and Progress

amomentwithfranca · 26 May 2023 · Leave a Comment

Parenthood is a journey filled with countless joys and challenges, and as parents, we often find ourselves facing unexpected hurdles. One such challenge my family and I have experienced over the past year is supporting my now 13-year-old daughter, Bella, through her anxieties and Emetophobia. It has been a difficult journey, but one that has also shown us the power of love, understanding, and perseverance.

Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia: 10 Strategies for Growth and Progress

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  • Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia: 10 Strategies for Growth and Progress
    • 1. Understanding the Challenges: An Overview of Anxieties and Emetophobia
      • A. Anxieties:
        • What are anxieties?
        • Different types:
        • Recognizing the signs:
        • How it affects daily life:
      • B. Emetophobia:
        • What is emetophobia?
        • Triggers and avoidance:
        • Emotional and physical impact:
        • Dealing with misunderstanding:
      • C. Overlapping challenges and unique experiences:
        • Other mental health conditions:
        • Every child is different:
        • The long-term impact:
    • 2. Ten Strategies for Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia
      • Listen, Listen, Listen:
      • Putting Her First:
      • Patience Pays Off:
      • Understanding is Empathy:
      • No Pushing, Just Support:
      • Encouraging Perseverance:
      • Asking for Help:
      • Trusting the Process:
      • Celebrating Small Victories:
      • Hugs Heal:
    • 3. Extending Support: You Are Not Alone
      • Seek Out Support Groups:
      • Professional Help:
      • Talk to Your Child’s School:
      • Educate Friends and Family:
    • 4. Conclusion

Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia: 10 Strategies for Growth and Progress

In this blog post, I want to share with you something personal. I recently opened up properly on Instagram and discussed the struggles that Bella has faced this last year and the 10 key strategies we have implemented to support her. These strategies have not only helped Bella navigate her anxieties but have also contributed to her progress and growth along the way. I also want to point out that Bella has given me her full blessing to share her progress, so that we can maybe help others.

The advice I shared is based on our own experiences as a family, and I hope that by opening up about our journey, we can provide support and inspiration to others who may be going through similar challenges with their children. No parent wants to see their child struggle, but by implementing these strategies, we have witnessed the positive impact they can have on a child’s well-being.

Bella with beach background

Bella is happier and calmer now

1. Understanding the Challenges: An Overview of Anxieties and Emetophobia

Anxieties and emetophobia can be tough and overwhelming, not just for our kids but for us parents as well. Let’s take a moment to gain a better understanding of what these challenges entail, in simpler terms:

A. Anxieties:
What are anxieties?

Anxiety is a common feeling of worry or unease. We all experience it at times, but for some kids, it becomes more intense and long-lasting, making it hard for them to cope with daily life.

Different types:

There are various types of anxiety disorders, such as generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety disorder, specific phobias, panic disorder, and separation anxiety disorder.

Recognizing the signs:

Kids with anxiety may show signs like excessive worrying, restlessness, trouble concentrating, being easily irritable, and experiencing physical symptoms like a rapid heartbeat or tummy aches. They may also avoid certain situations that trigger their anxieties.

How it affects daily life:

Anxiety can make it tough for our children to interact socially, perform well in school, and enjoy life to the fullest. We need to acknowledge these challenges and provide the necessary support.

Bella eating out

Bella can now eat something when we are out 

B. Emetophobia:
What is emetophobia?

Emetophobia is a specific fear of vomiting or seeing others vomit. It goes beyond the act itself and includes being afraid of feeling nauseous or being in situations associated with vomiting.

Triggers and avoidance:

Kids with emetophobia will do everything possible to avoid situations or things they think might make them vomit. This can lead to limitations in their daily activities, like avoiding certain foods, public places, or social events.

Emotional and physical impact:

Emetophobia causes extreme distress, anxiety, and even panic attacks. Physical symptoms like a racing heart, sweating, and difficulty breathing can arise when they face their fear.

Dealing with misunderstanding:

Unfortunately, emetophobia is often misunderstood or not taken seriously by others, which can make things harder for our children. We must be understanding and supportive in their journey.

Bella eating ice cream

Bella eating ice cream without any struggles

C. Overlapping challenges and unique experiences:
Other mental health conditions:

Anxieties and emetophobia can sometimes coexist with other conditions like obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or generalized anxiety disorder, making things more complicated for our children.

Every child is different:

It’s important to remember that each child’s experience with anxiety and emetophobia is unique. We need to approach their struggles with an open mind and adapt our strategies to fit their individual needs.

The long-term impact:

If left untreated, anxieties and emetophobia can have a lasting impact on our child’s development, relationships, and overall well-being. Early intervention and support are key to helping them overcome these challenges.

Bella drinking apple juice

Bella is now able to drink when we are out 

2. Ten Strategies for Supporting a Child with Anxieties and Emetophobia

When it comes to supporting a child with anxieties and emetophobia, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. However, through our own experiences, we have discovered ten strategies that have been instrumental in helping Bella overcome her fears and make progress. Here are the strategies that have worked for us:

Listen, Listen, Listen:

One of the most crucial ways we’ve supported Bella is by truly listening to her. We provide a safe space for her to express her fears and concerns without judgment. By actively listening, we validate her feelings and let her know that we’re there for her.

Putting Her First:

Prioritizing Bella’s well-being above everything else has been paramount. We consider her needs and emotions in our daily decisions, ensuring she feels supported and understood.

Patience Pays Off:

Dealing with anxieties and emetophobia takes time. We’ve learned to be patient and give Bella the space she needs to process and work through her fears. Rushing or pressuring her would only hinder her progress.

Understanding is Empathy:

Even if we may not fully comprehend her fears, we make a conscious effort to see things from Bella’s perspective. This empathy helps us better support her and build a stronger connection.

No Pushing, Just Support:

Encouraging Bella to step out of her comfort zone is important, but we never force her. We provide gentle encouragement, letting her know we’re there to support her, but we respect her boundaries and allow her to take things at her own pace.

Encouraging Perseverance:

We instil in Bella the importance of perseverance. We celebrate her efforts, no matter how small, and remind her that progress is not always linear. This mindset encourages her to keep trying and never give up.

Asking for Help:

Recognizing when to seek assistance is crucial. We are not experts in mental health, so we’ve learned to reach out for professional help when necessary. Therapists, counsellors, and support groups have provided invaluable guidance and resources.

Trusting the Process:

Believing that things will get better has been a vital mindset for our family. We remind ourselves and Bella that anxiety and emetophobia can be temporary and that this challenging phase is part of her journey towards growth and healing.

Celebrating Small Victories:

Progress, no matter how small, deserves to be acknowledged and celebrated. We take time to recognize Bella’s achievements, reinforcing her confidence and reminding her of her strength.

Hugs Heal:

Physical comfort can be immensely powerful in soothing an anxious mind. Cuddles, hugs, and physical reassurance create a sense of safety and calmness for Bella during moments of distress.

Helping her breathe through panic attacks with calming techniques has been a vital component in supporting her to relax and regain composure. When experiencing a panic attack, the body’s natural response is to take shallow and rapid breaths, which can further intensify feelings of anxiety. By focusing on deep, intentional breaths, her brain receives the oxygen it needs, promoting a sense of calm and aiding in stress release.

Remember, these strategies are based on our personal experiences and may not apply to every child or situation. Each child is unique, so feel free to adapt and modify these strategies to best suit your child’s needs. The key is to provide unconditional love, understanding, and unwavering support as they navigate their anxieties and emetophobia.

Anxiety & Emetophobia - Bella & Franca hugging inside the tube

Bella is now able to get on a public transport without having a panic attack

3. Extending Support: You Are Not Alone

If you find yourself on a similar journey, supporting a child with anxieties and emetophobia, it’s important to know that you are not alone. This can be an isolating experience, but there is a community out there who understand the challenges and are ready to offer support.

Seek Out Support Groups:

Look for local or online support groups where you can connect with other parents who are going through similar experiences. Sharing stories, insights, and advice can be incredibly helpful and reassuring.

Professional Help:

Don’t hesitate to seek professional help from therapists, counsellors, coaches or mental health professionals who specialize in anxiety disorders and phobias. They can provide valuable guidance, strategies, and coping mechanisms for both you and your child.

We found incredible support through The Thrive Programme. This program focuses on helping individuals thrive by overcoming fears, phobias, and anxieties. We had the privilege of working with a fantastic coach who made a remarkable impact on Bella’s journey. Even though our sessions have ended, he continues to check in on her, demonstrating his genuine care and dedication.

We are grateful for our experience with The Thrive Programme and the positive impact it has had on Bella’s life. I will probably extend more on this program in another post, sharing more details about how it has helped her progress and our overall experience.

Talk to Your Child’s School:

If your child’s anxieties are impacting their school life, reach out to their teachers, counsellors, or the school’s support staff. They can collaborate with you to create a supportive environment that understands and accommodates your child’s needs.

Educate Friends and Family:

Share information about anxieties and emetophobia with close friends and family members. This helps them understand your child’s challenges and enables them to provide appropriate support and empathy.

Remember, it’s okay to ask for help and lean on others during this journey. Building a network of support can make a significant difference in both your and your child’s well-being.

4. Conclusion

 

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I feel emotional just watching this video back and realising how much she has improved. She wasn’t able to use public transport before and look at her now!

Supporting a child with anxieties and emetophobia is an ongoing journey that requires patience, understanding, and unwavering love. Through the strategies I have shared, we have witnessed Bella’s progress and growth. However, we recognize that every child’s experience is unique, and what works for Bella may not work for everyone. It’s important to adapt and tailor these strategies to fit your child’s specific needs and circumstances.

While Bella’s journey has shown significant improvement, we are still navigating through challenges and continuing to learn along the way. We celebrate the small victories and are grateful for the support network we have built. We have sought professional assistance and educated ourselves about anxieties and emetophobia. We are still on this journey together as a family, and we remain open to learning and adapting our approach as needed.

If you’re on a similar path, remember that you’re not alone. Reach out to others for guidance and support.

What are some techniques or strategies that have helped you support a child with anxieties or phobias? Share your experiences and insights in the comments below. Let’s learn from each other and build a supportive community!

Thanks for stopping by,

Love you all ❤️

Franca  💋

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